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Oct. 21, 2012 at 4:06 pm
Theres this guy that Ive been talking to a lot. And hes sweet and super nice and really sensitive. And I;m pretty sure he likes me. Hes told me he wants a serious girlfriend bad. But I dunno if im ready for that. I can be really pessimistic when it comes to highschool relationships. but I don't want to hurt his feelings. Plus I dont know how i feel towards him yet. He's admitted that he falls for girls fast proven by the fact that he used to like my twin. I dont wanna be just another girl on the list of girls hes liked. But he makes me laugh and my mom says I've been happier ever sense we've been talking. and idk I just feel confused on what I should do.
Oct. 22, 2012 at 5:51 pm
I think you should get to know this guy a little more. There is no way to see if you're in love with him, don't believe those dumb tests on the internet. You have to decide for yourself if you like him, no one can tell you.
It seems like u two have something nice going. I think that he if asks you out, you should at least consider it. Maybe try it for a week, especially since ur mom approves :) good luck
Oct. 22, 2012 at 9:36 pm
I absolutly agree with DOT, give it time and get to know him. Love is such a strong word it's very escense is so subjective (varies from person to person). So by all means get to know him before making up your mind.
Oct. 28, 2012 at 3:50 pm
That guy was insane.Turns out he was really trying super hard to get gf that it didnt matter who it was. Less than a month of talking and he kept saying your mine well not yet or gf not yet and just a complete cling-on pyscho. Tried so hard that he stopped noticing that I stopped giving him postivie signals. I eventually had to tell him to leave me the heck alone. He was not who I thought he was thats for sure. Thanks for the advice. Why do guys think that attracts girls?
Oct. 29, 2012 at 3:26 pm
Wow okay, PLEASE do not join the list of women who think that 1 boy who treats you horribly = every male, this is NOT nor has it EVER been the case. There is a HUGE difference between a 'boy' and a 'man'. Clearly the man is the better of the two, so please girls/ladies. Find a MAN that will treat you right.
Oct. 31, 2012 at 8:23 am
i agree with cts on this one.while i myself do have a girlfriend, i also do realize the problems facing us teens today when it comes to finding proper relationships. we all need to realize that some people are just too immature for relationships.they are meant to be taken slowly,and properly. obviously this "boy" does not know how to have a proper relationship.get to know him more,find out his beliefs and what he likes and such. other than that,he doesnt seem fit for a relationship. please do follow your heart as well,but also know what needs to be done and how it needs to be done
Nov. 7, 2012 at 8:49 pm
Agreed. I'm not like that.I've actually talked to some other girls hes liked and they say he was like that to them too.So...yeah its just him. I don't think all guys are bad.
