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what do i do?????? i love her but if my mom finds out she would disown Josie(my twin)....... she found out on our birthday last month!! she only recently told me. Should i tell our mom? Should I convince her to adopt the baby out or convince her to keep the baby? i dont wanna be an aunt yet, but looks like i have no choice, but to accept it!
You need to tell your mom! She can help with this. Just don't broach the subject until a time when she's in a good mood, and isn't stressed or worried over something. =)
Also, how old is your sister? I would encourage her to keep the baby, but if she's really young, and especially if your mom turns out to not be very supportive, then maybe you should consider adoption... there are *tons* of couples out there, who are looking to adopt!
Do not put that child out for adoption. Whatever you do, don't do that.
well we turned 14 on the 13th of last month............ my sister & my mom havent exactly seen each other in a couple of years.......... since we were seven.... but she moved back to our hometown around the same time we did(in January) but she wants to come see our mom but doesnt want her to know yet................ so tell her not to adopt it out okay i can do tht.............. she listens to me mostly
well she ran away seven years ago (we r 14 now) & when my mom, lil bro, stepdad, & me moved back to my home town( Mayfield) i ran into her......... like really ran into her....... but we have been hanging out BUT my mom doesnt even know her, she put herself into denial & tries to make herself believe Josie doesnt even exists..... she finially did it a couple yrs ago............ so wht do i do???????
i feel for u
awwwww thanks c ya 3rd period bandgeek
i havent seen Josie in awhile i wonder where she is
It's not your place to tell your mom, it's your sister's. If she wants to keep the baby, make sure to explain to her that it is hard work and expensive, tell her that she wouldn't have a social life and is putting her life on hold until the child goes to school. If she wants to put the kid up for adoption or get an abor.tion, that would be a good choice but whatever she decides to do you need to support her decision and be there for her.
thanks but i absolutley will not allow my sister to ab.ort the baby
I'm glad to hear that, FieryAngel! But if you've made that decision, you need to be ready to really be there for your sister... don't EVER desert her, or ignore her. Be there for her at all times, when she needs to talk, or just have someone physically in the room with her.
Have you told your mom yet? I agree with sorla about that your sister should be the one to tell your mom... that sounds like a good idea. Especially since it's your sister's baby after all.
God bless you two, and I'll be praying for y'all!
thank u so much
it was twins and she had a miscarriage
Aw, I'm really sorry to hear that, Angel. I'll be praying for you and Josie. <3 =( Is she in a lot of pain? How is she doing?
Aw...:( *sends hugs* Is she okay?
she seems really sad................. i wish i could help she stopped eating and talking............. WHAT DO I DO 2 HELP srry didnt mean 2 yell
Oh, that doesn't sound good... =( I'm sorry, Angel. Will she talk to ANYONE? If she won't talk to anyone, and won't eat, then maybe counseling or something like that would help.
This happens to a lot of people; I think it happens to most people who have babies. My mom had several, and my oldest sister has had two. It's not her fault, and she can have another someday.
she barely talks to me but she seemed a little happier yesterday becuz she met a new guy......... the babys daddy cheated on her & left with his h.o i mean girlfriend.............. i hope she doesnt start doing stuff she will regret
Me too. :( I hope she gets better...