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So Long, Wonder Years This piece has been published in Teen Ink's monthly print magazine.

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“I want fabulous, that is my simple request. All things fabulous, bigger and better and best. Fetch me my Jimmy Choo flip-flops. Where is my pink Prada tote? I need my Tiffany hair band. And then I can go for a float.”

I can’t tell you how many times I have witnessed a live karaoke version of this “High School Musical 2” song performed by the three little girls I babysit. It took only one of their shows for me to realize what the media is doing to the youth of our nation.
Photo credit: Jessica P., Bethel Park, PA
The first few lyrics are already teaching young girls to ­demand a perfect life and boss whoever is nearest to “fetch” their materialistic fashion products.

And it’s not just these girls who have been sucked into the brainwashing wave – it’s our little sisters, cousins, nieces, and neighbors too. Everywhere I go I see little girls dressed in super low-riding shorts, perfectly matching sparkly Hannah Montana belly shirts that bring out their glittery blue eye ­shadow. And with this I shed a tear and bid adieu to what we used to know as childhood, for it seems to me that the media in America today is causing adolescents, specifically females, to grow up much too fast and in the wrong way.

There are many “role models” for girls today who perhaps aren’t doing such a great job. One of the little girls I babysit is a big fan of a Disney star. She even dressed up as her for Halloween. I can imagine this 10-year-old, and many others, wanting to decorate her school binder with pictures and searching for her in Google Images. Terrifying but true: the very first picture that comes up is of this star in her underwear. This isn’t just one bad egg in the carton; in the next one she’s actually nude though thankfully blacked out in the appropriate (or should I say ­inappropriate) areas, and multiple pictures follow of the same variety. I’m really glad that young people are dressing like that for Halloween. Trick-or-treat, Grandma, the times are a-changing!

This is truly saddening because these celebrity role models actually do make an impression on our youth. A study by the National Heart, Lung, and Blood Institute found that 40 percent of 9- and 10-year-old girls were trying to lose weight. Research into Saturday morning toy commercials noted that 50 percent of those aimed at girls spoke about physical attractiveness. But it’s not just these stars and commercials that are setting bad examples. Disney released “High School Musical” underwear for little girls with the words “Dive In” printed on the front. There is no way Disney could manufacture those without someone saying, “Hey, maybe people won’t think we mean dive into the swimming pool …” I think Walt just flipped over in his grave.

I’m not saying that we should lock up the children and throw away all ­televisions and computers. It’s healthy to see what the real world is like through the media to a certain extent. Some parents who shelter their children go too far at times, in my opinion. An online article ­reported that in one scene of Hannah Montana’s 3-D concert movie, she wasn’t wearing a seat belt. The article goes on to say that 65 percent of 13- to 15-year-olds killed in auto accidents in 2006 weren’t wearing seat belts. The blame for that cannot be placed on Hannah Montana; that’s going overboard, even if she did slip up.

Our world is quickly changing, and it may seem impossible to make an impact if you aren’t involved in the media, but that isn’t necessarily the case. Parents and other positive adult influences can really make a difference by talking to young people and ­letting them know that they are beautiful just the way they are. Show them a couple of Dove commercials to boost morale and pop in an episode of “Ed, Edd n Eddy” or “Recess” to show them that they can still be a kid and be themselves.

Sometimes we need to take a step back and think about what helped shape us. That’s why next time I babysit those singing and dancing girls, I’m going to bring along an Elton John CD to show them what music really is, and a copy of “Peter Pan,” who taught us to never grow up. If you know a young lady who is influenced by this type of media, step up and show her what manners, humility, and a little bit of fashion decency really look like. I can only hope that someday if I have a daughter, she’ll think Jimmy Choo is a type of bubble gum.
This piece has been published in Teen Ink's monthly print magazine.This piece has also been published in Teen Ink's monthly print magazine.

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crazyandshort said...
Mar. 18 at 11:34 am:

Oh my gosh, I totally agree with you! I used to be a HUGE fan of Britney Spears, and then all the scandals started and I went "OH, geez, maybe I shouldn't look up to her. She shaved almost all her hair off! That's smart! NOT!" I think we should educate the younger persuasion they need to look out and realize that not everything they see their favorite stars do is glamorous and great.

 
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ZadaRox101 said...
Mar. 9 at 7:40 pm:

I completely agree with your article, but I have to say, Fabulous is just a fun song and the point of the movie is to think of others instead of yourself. It shows how self absorbed Sharpay is and how she changes through the movie. But I definitely completely agree on how our youth is changing.

 
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naturelover123 said...
Mar. 8 at 9:12 pm:

Kids need to be carefree and like themselves for who they are. It seems like the media is telling them to grow up too fast these days and making them worry too much about looking hot.

 
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Annirae said...
Mar. 1 at 8:21 pm:

I think you did a really awesome job stating your opinion while still staying cool, calm, and collected and not throwing all the blame on one person or at one thing. I totally agree with you, although this has been happening for ages.

 
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little-miss-sunshine said...
Mar. 1 at 5:57 pm:

Oh... I wish I were a kid. I am a young teen so it's close, but it's not the same as being the young innocent carefree child I used to be. However when you tell kids things like that about enjoying your childhood, by being a child they scoff. This makes me sad. Wonderful article.

 
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Vanessa C. said...
Feb. 7 at 7:36 pm:

I think your wrong in saying that Disney Channel stars are influencing how fast children are growing up. I mean really? Just because girls like to sing "High School Musical 2" songs about having fabulous things doesn't necessarily mean they're going to grow up to be bratty tyrants expecting things. Honestly its up to someone's parents to teach them fact from fiction. What's so wrong with girls having a little girly fun. Besides there's plenty wrong with sit... (more »)

 
IzzieArtist replied...
Mar. 1 at 3:47 pm :

Its plenty wrong for kids to sit in front of the TV period! I don't think you should be saying thats its fine to watch High School Musical and Hannah Montana and saying its stupid for kids to watch cartoons. Kids today surprisingly understand that a cartoon isn't real, but they think that Miley Cyrus's life is real. I really think you should give this article some more thought before you trash it down.

 
Vanessa C. replied...
Mar. 2 at 5:16 pm :

I'm not trashing the article I just disagree with the fact that by watching Hannah Montana or any other Disney program that someone's kid won't be able to discern the difference between real life and t.v. Why is it so surprising that kids understand that cartoons aren't real? Most kids learn that from a early age from picture books. So why wouldn't they know a sitcom isn't real? I think the real problem is that people are so afraid of traumatizing their kids min... (more »)

 
IzzieArtist replied...
Mar. 3 at 10:38 pm :

What about them getting obsessed? Which all kids really have become crazed with HSM, and Hannah Montana. I mean really, HSM underwear? Saying "dive in"? Can't get more obsessed than that. What ever happened to Bear in the Big Blue House and I know everyone hates it now, but I learned a lot from Barney and Out of the Box. Kids have been brainwashed by disney channel's stupid shows that don't teach anything. All about being cool and fashionable and falling in love.

 
Vanessa C. replied...
Mar. 4 at 8:08 pm :

Oh please! Like you weren't obsessed with some show as a kid. Most kids are like that. I was obsessed with Rugrats and God knows that wasn't too educational. But I didn't grow up to be a brat like Angelica. My parents taught me better. Plus you're acting as though HSM doesn't have any type of morals. The last time I checked those movies have all been about coming together to accomplish a common goal and being true to your who you are. You can't take one part of... (more »)

 
AsherJ replied...
Mar. 13 at 5:12 pm :

I totally agree with izzieartist, the fact that shows on Disney and Nick have human kids acting (not cartoons) make it seem real to them. Example in Suite Life of Zack and Cody they constantly disobey/ed their mom and one day my brother disobeyed my mom and said a comment saying that "Zack and Cody did it too."

 
Vanessa C. replied...
Mar. 14 at 1:03 pm :

Sounds like to me your brother was just trying to be cute. I mean that show always has them receiving consequences for their actions. Do you really think he's being brainwashed?

 
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Megan W. said...
Feb. 7 at 3:36 pm:

everything that you said is 100% true. thank you so much for putting this out there for people to read.

 
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Lucky.Deviant said...
Feb. 7 at 1:42 pm:

This generation is fogetting their childhood. it's making me sad to think about what they'll say if someone asks them what the best part of their childhood was....

 
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Linzeluu said...
Feb. 7 at 11:42 am:

I AGREE WITH YOU! If Walt Disney saw what Disney had become, he would cry.

 
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lily1411 said...
Jan. 25 at 6:43 pm:

You don't know how many of my friends (and me!) agree with all of what you just said.

 
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lux24 said...
Jan. 23 at 2:53 pm:

I agree. everything has changed. When I was little I watched shows like spongebob,cat and dog...and movies like the fox and the hound but now I see kids watching family guy,south park. I have towo brothers one is seven and the other is ten and since they began to watch those shows they started saying all of these bad words that I'm not even allowed to say and when I hear them I just shake my head and feel disgusted. But I guess it's not really their fault it's their parents fault ... (more »)

 
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fiftiesgal467 said...
Jan. 20 at 6:00 pm:

Moving article! Excellent job. You're so right. It's not like when I was younger and people were into Disney princesses, now it's all hip hop and rock stars. Why is it that little kids are pressured to grow up?

 
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pain_&_hate<3 said...
Jan. 16 at 8:17 pm:

this is totaly true , i have a 5 year old sister and im wondering whats gonna happen to her When shes gets into her teens and and then she goes off and dose something she will regret like get pregnate or some thing WAY worse !

 
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Allegria-Starling said...
Jan. 16 at 4:14 am:

Ah, the good ole days when Mickey was our role model... :D

 
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toxic.monkey said...
Dec. 25, 2009 at 1:03 pm:

i agree with you so much. i find it sad that kids hurry to become "older". childhood passes so why not enjoy it?? and anyway, aging is first of all mental, rather than behavioral and physical as percieved by these kids.
BUT this article is amazing :D

 
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...irie... said...
Dec. 25, 2009 at 12:11 pm:

Really great article! If we all took a stand and showed the media people sex ,violence,and drugs are NOT what teenagers and kids want to hear about,maybe they'd stop. If we buy into this crap it will never change. We have to stick to our morals and hope it gets into the minds of our future generations just as the article said. Whoever thinks kids out there just want sex and superficial things are wrong, but at the same time they are manipulating them to think that's what they want..... What... (more »)

 
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outoforder2014 said...
Dec. 19, 2009 at 11:19 pm:

when i was 10 years old i played basketball, thought boys had cudies and watched scooby doo. the most reckless thing i did in this direction was beg my mom for a pair of jeans with holes in the knees [and i never got them, now i understand why she didnt let me dress like that] yesterday, i saw a 9 year old girl texting on her ipod touch about her "Boyfriend"? and they say Hannah Montana is a good show for girls. absolutely not!

 
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cotig writes said...
Dec. 17, 2009 at 8:16 am:

very nicely done. i think many people our age would disagree with you. you've got to defend yourself on all counts.

 
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swim4ever said...
Dec. 11, 2009 at 3:47 pm:

I am 14 i dont wear makeup i dont have a cell phone i have an ipod and a laptop I bought them with my hard earnned money my mom still will not let me go to the mall to hang with my friends im not allowed to have a boyfriend(i dont always follow that rule though) my shirts have to come 3inches below the top of my jeans i cant have holes in my jeans if my parents ever saw any thing falling out of my shirt i would get killed and to think ten year olds wear under wear that say dive in on them thats sick

 
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wichmann94 said...
Dec. 8, 2009 at 9:03 pm:

Nice Article! The only thing is that Tisdale was sposed to be placing a "spoiled" girl, in real life I've seen her and she seems fairly sweet. I think certain celebrites handle the fame differently. (hence Demi Lovato compared to Lindsay Lohan.) Either way I felt this article was very well worded :)

 
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Emily555 said...
Dec. 8, 2009 at 5:29 pm:

I cannot say in words how much I agree in this. In music, TV and movies so many negative ideas are going out for teen agers and young kids to see. If some one took a random kids ipod and looked at all the songs, I bet a good majority of the songs would be about violence, sex , or drugs and alcohol. It is totally sick what media is putting into kids' heads nowadays. Some of the shows on kids TV channels I can't watch because they completely disgust me, and kids are getting the mess... (more »)

 
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Hisa-Ai said...
Dec. 3, 2009 at 7:40 pm:

I totally agree with you, TV these days is really bad. My school newspaper printed an article on how the younger generation is being negatively influenced by what's being aired compared to what us older kids grew-up with.
Like, my EIGHT YEAR OLD brother watches things like South Park, Family Guy, The Cleveland Show, American Dad, Futurama, and other inappropriate things that I was never allowed to watch at his age. And as a result, he says things that I would've gotten into trou... (more »)

 
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Banana_dragon said...
Dec. 3, 2009 at 7:10 pm:

W.B. kids was the greatest. Freakazoid, Animaniacs, and Earthworm Jim where my favorite shows. My parents video taped some episodes and I even drag them out sometimes too. I totally agree with you. Kids are meant to be kids, not mini adults.

 
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ReadingFanatic said...
Dec. 3, 2009 at 3:45 pm:

I SOOO agree with you. There's a guy in my carpool who's in kindergarten. He listens to stupid songs like Dont trust me and LIKES THEM. He says shut up and words that even I'M not allowed to say. Whats happen to out society? When I was little I watched Authur, Caillo, Blues Clues, and Tom and Jerry. I jknew these were for laughs and didnt grow up to be one. When ever I see something with Hannah Montana I gag. Instead if talking which Jonas Brother is hotter I talk about books, and... (more »)

 
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Abigail_W said...
Dec. 3, 2009 at 3:30 pm:

I remember when Disney Channel was Mickey Mouse (hence the little mouse ears in the corner of the screen) in the morning and episodes of Lizzie McGuire and Sister, Sister. Dang, I miss old television.

 
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lovehate29 said...
Dec. 3, 2009 at 3:07 pm:

Oh i'll have to agree with you on this.
good job. I like your opinion. My sister is a big fan of Hannah Montana and she acts like a little diva. She always want heels, she thinks she could get everything she wants, and sometimes she talks to me like I'm a dog. But I don't let her get away with it. I realized that she goes to school doing the same exact thing, except the kids there, almost bow down to her feet[figure of speech]. A lot of people think its cute, and funny. But ... (more »)

 
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DOLLFACE1000 said...
Dec. 3, 2009 at 10:53 am:

I totally agree with what you're saying. "With great power comes great responsibility" Celebrities KNOW that there are kids who look up to them, and they should act accordingly. Some handle it better than others. You don't hear about Selena posing for playboy, or Demi smoking pot, But what about Miley Cyrus, and Lynsey Lohan? Waht about good ol' Brittney Spears? When I was in second grade, I claimed to love Brittney Spears, and I didn't even know who she was! I only... (more »)

 
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orange said...
Dec. 3, 2009 at 8:55 am:

i actually can see what you are saying! I am quite concerned for our future generation. before you know it, disney will make those "dive in" underwear for 2 year olds.

 
ManekiNeko replied...
Dec. 3, 2009 at 10:20 am :

i agree with the idea of underwear with the words "dive in" is very worrying. i'm utterly disgusted by what disney has turned into.

 
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Emmalee said...
Dec. 3, 2009 at 7:48 am:

Wonderful. :)

 
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Peanut:) said...
Nov. 28, 2009 at 10:47 pm:

ah! Cudos to you my friend (yah. I probably didn't spell that right!) I completely agree with everything you said. Very true, very true and I wish there were a few more like you in this world who recognize this madness that is turning our next nation's leader's in to the next Miley Cyruss' or Britany Spears'. Very well written. Powerful.

 
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Dara R. said...
Nov. 15, 2009 at 10:22 am:

so true! i was just reading something about a girl who became anorexic when she was only ten. that is WAY too young to feel fat. and i just saw two little girls at the mall in little belly shirts wearing a ton of makeup. disney makes me sick and ppl like miley and vanessa are terrible influences on young girls

 
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Nanna said...
Nov. 11, 2009 at 8:52 pm:

When I go to the mall, I see so many little girls wearing makeup, whipping out there cell phones, and even with dyed hair, and I say to my friends 'didn't we still shop with our parents when we were that age?' It's so unbelievable not only what girls are doing these days, but what their parents let them do. I love this article, because it says the truth. I remember when I was a kid I couldn't wait to finally start shaving my legs, because all of my friends were. As if it is cool? Then I see litt... (more »)

 
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Charity H. said...
Nov. 11, 2009 at 8:39 pm:

i think we should start a chain email about this, maybe that will help...

 
Abigail_W replied...
Dec. 3, 2009 at 3:32 pm :

Just don't say in it, "You'll be ugly forever if you don't send this along" or something like that. You'd get in major trouble.

 
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alex9426 said...
Nov. 11, 2009 at 8:21 pm:

you are absolutely right. if only the parents of paris hilton could have read this! i honestly don't know why disney hasn't fired miley cyrus and vanessa hudgens. they are (insert bad word here) and completely AWFUL people. it's no wonder girls are becoming shallower and shallower. thank goodness i grew up watching rugrats, arthur, and blues clues!!

 
ManekiNeko replied...
Dec. 3, 2009 at 10:23 am :

i grew up watching innocent cartoons (well, as innocent as you can get) and now disney and nick are airing shows that seriously shouldn't even exist. for example, nick is airing bleach (it's an awesome anime but way too violent for kids.)

 
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Michael T. said...
Nov. 11, 2009 at 9:53 am:

I believe it is the parents that are dressing there daughters up like this... okay so the manufactures are supplying the clothes and makeup but the parents are buying and dressing the girls... allowing makeup at 8 it just stupid.. these girls are going to grow up with no self-esteem and who knows what the future lies....

 
ManekiNeko replied...
Dec. 3, 2009 at 10:24 am :

my mom wouldn't let me wear make-up until i was 13.

 
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Schubster said...
Nov. 11, 2009 at 8:03 am:

I do agree with you a most ways, including the "Recess and Ed, Ed, and Eddy" part. I think that movies like High School Musical and Hannah Montanna should try and reach an older audience, since WE know that we shouldn't tell someone to "fetch" anything-it's just that characters personality. But the little girls DON'T know that and their young imaginations can't differentiate that from reality. Awesome job, though! :)

 
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Jennifer B. said...
Oct. 20, 2009 at 6:23 pm:

I agree with FireflesGuideMe. I blame it on soceity and the media this has been revolving over time and now its creeped up on us little girls are growing up totally different from what I did not too long ago there was no hanna montana or selena gomez i watched rugrats and wore cinderella pajamas from the disney strore now my little cousin is worrying about her weight at the age of 8 yearsold these days there are too many standards of representation which = insecurity for little girls who eat it ... (more »)

 
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Mikki-bug<3 said...
Oct. 20, 2009 at 4:12 pm:

I COMPLETELY agree with you! Everywhere I go I see eight year olds wearing the shorts so short it's not even funny walking around with their cell phones, texting and wearing their eyeshadow and lipstick. What happened to jumpsuits and overalls and just enjoying childhood!?

 
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Inkspired said...
Oct. 20, 2009 at 3:11 pm:

This is so true! I'm so glad you wrote this article, and I'm completely with you. Girls at age nine wearing make-up is just freaky. I don't wear make-up!

 
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FirefliesGuideMe said...
Oct. 20, 2009 at 3:08 pm:

What happened to old disney?? The Cinderella and Sleeping Beuty teenagers my age used to look up to?? Little girls are growing up way too fast. My friends and I are teens who grew up believing you don't have to grow up, just act your age sometimes. I see this little nine-year-old and I act more like a kid than her. Little girls are dressing like Daisey Duke with the cut off shorts and showing off their belly buttons. Guys are going to see these girls as objects. GIRLS!!! ACT LIKE YOU... (more »)

 
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