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I don't like Lady Gaga.

Blasphemy alert. I’m a sixteen year old American girl and I don’t like Lady Gaga. And no, it’s not because I don’t like her music, her costumes, or her performances. I just don’t like being manipulated.

Actually, I lied. It’s partly her music, costumes, and performances. But not so much because they’re hideous or outrageous or tiresome. But looking back at those pictures of her as a “normal” girl and seeing what and who she is now, it’s almost insulting. The fact that this girl had to change into something almost non-human to finally get noticed is unsettling, at best. She’s instead this cold, faceless force. No one noticed her when she was trying to “make it”. But then the fame machine (monster, she calls it?) seemed to eat her up and spit out an entirely new person, repackaged and revamped to “shock” us all.

And in the end, it really isn’t even that shocking. It’s almost a little pathetic (and you’ll see what I mean by insulting) when it seems that the state of the nation’s youth has degenerated so much that we need a woman in a mask and sparkling breasts to tell us that we’re all okay. Okay to be different, okay to be loved, the whole package. Because then we really aren’t, are we?

She's been quoted as saying, “I would rather die than have my fans not see me in a pair of high heels. I'd never give up my wigs and hats for anything.” I'm afraid that this mentality about possessions and image, to her millions of female fans, is dangerous. She speaks almost as if these material things are as vital to life as water is. This is the same woman who says that “I'm always saying something about art and music and fame. That's why you don't ever catch me in sweatpants.” She claims that her style and her persona is for art, and yet, it begs the question if she ever does anything for herself. She makes herself a martyr for the love of her fans. And if she is as passionate as she says she is about new frontiers in art, why are the vast majority of her lyrics about sex and money?



I'm not asking her to be anything different, not exactly. Give me a David Bowie reincarnate, an rebel in the music industry. But give me a little more complexity, a little more beauty, a little more thought than just what's on the outside. Give me another facet than just the freaky hair and makeup and clothing, because if that’s all there is, her opinion about simply being yourself is lost somewhere in the jumble of cosmetics and oversized sunglasses. But most of all, give me a break.




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CookeysAndCream said...
Jul. 19, 2011 at 10:47 am:

Like most other sixteen year-old girls in America, I like listening to Lady Gaga's music. I know I'm being manipulated, but in this case I've just given up trying to fight back. I don't care for her insane videos or fashion stunts. But I do care for her voice, and the be-yourself power ballads. I really did try to fight it off. I'm anti-mainstream in a way that almost reaches hipster levels. But I still like Gaga. I'm willing to ignore the superficial nature of it all for a great album, just... (more »)

 
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HopefulWolfThis teenager is a 'regular' and has contributed a lot of work, comments and/or forum posts, and has received many votes and high ratings over a long period of time. This work has been published in the Teen Ink monthly print magazine. said...
Jul. 13, 2011 at 10:51 am:

I was born this way!

Lady Gaga supports being proud of who you are, even if someone makes fun of you or writes a mean essay and post it online. Of course there were about a million things in this article I agree with, but I will not ask her to alter herself just because of the person I am.

 
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far.from.you. said...
Jul. 11, 2011 at 9:58 pm:
Lady gaga is a wise, inspring, and truthful indivdual no matter what you say..
 
neverminde replied...
Jul. 12, 2011 at 1:53 am :
you know nothing especially the true understanding of the word "wise"...
 
pink pompom replied...
Aug. 10, 2011 at 11:39 am :

jeez, guys, chill out! :) its all cool- good artist, good messages...weird hair...

its a good peice of writing, tho we don,t agree with it. lets all step baaaaccckkk....!

 
cretalakairaThis teenager is a 'regular' and has contributed a lot of work, comments and/or forum posts, and has received many votes and high ratings over a long period of time. This work has been published in the Teen Ink monthly print magazine. replied...
Aug. 10, 2011 at 3:19 pm :
Thank you far.from.you.! That's exactly what I think. I really agree with you, she changed my life.
 
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redhairCatThis teenager is a 'regular' and has contributed a lot of work, comments and/or forum posts, and has received many votes and high ratings over a long period of time. This work has been published in the Teen Ink monthly print magazine. said...
Jul. 5, 2011 at 10:46 pm:
I like Lady Gaga, but I can see your point! She has a great voice - just needs to write songs that don't have to do with sex or partying
 
pink pompom replied...
Aug. 10, 2011 at 6:29 pm :
okayyyy, redhairCat --you go! needs different themes maybe, but its all ok! no one is being forced to listen to her:) lets all be a lil calmer... anyone out there agree??
 
redhairCatThis teenager is a 'regular' and has contributed a lot of work, comments and/or forum posts, and has received many votes and high ratings over a long period of time. This work has been published in the Teen Ink monthly print magazine. replied...
Aug. 11, 2011 at 12:03 am :
I'm not getting hysterical over her music themes, if that's what you mean!
 
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Leisie said...
Jul. 2, 2011 at 2:40 pm:
A witty, truthful article. There should be more like this.
 
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kimmaaaa said...
Jun. 29, 2011 at 12:45 am:
I think you are reading way too much into lady gaga's costumes, make-up and performances. you had a school assignment, and probably no life, and wrote what you did. you spent hours thinking of what would grab peoples attention and would get a decent grade. Please, she is sucessful and famous for a reason. Stop over analyzing her as an artist and get a life of your own, it might be fun? Stop hating life, and start enjoying it!
 
LovelyBlueRose replied...
Jul. 19, 2011 at 6:27 am :
Lady Gaga is awesome and inspiring, but there is some things in this article that makes a point though. You just have to look at both sides first.
 
storywritinggirl replied...
Jul. 19, 2011 at 8:57 pm :
man, that's a bit harsh kimmaaaa. She's just expressing her opinion just like you do yours. There's no need to be that rude about it. i like the article and can see valid points, and nothing anyone says will sway me from my opinion.
 
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StephanieRoro This work has been published in the Teen Ink monthly print magazine. said...
Jun. 27, 2011 at 2:57 pm:
I agree with this piece. I believe Lady Gaga has a very good voice, BUT apparently it isn't enough. It makes me wonder if she would rather be known for her looks over her music. She is NOT the first to dress crazily. Grace Jones also wore unorthodox outfits but she retained a sense of class and beauty. Lady Gaga is sloppy and similar to something you'd see in a circus with the sole purpose of making you laugh and then she expects people to respect some kind of hidden message. People call her rev... (more »)
 
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Dragonfly_Girl said...
Jun. 27, 2011 at 2:38 pm:
I actually DO sometimes listen to lady gaga's music (and enjoy it too!), but I really appriciated this article because of the statement it makes about american culture and society. A lot of the people who commented negatively on this are just such die-hard fans that they wouldn't even take the time to THINK about this piece. It is well-written, clever, witty, and makes a good point. However, I do think sometimes some pretty fantastic art comes from some pretty messed-up people- and that is proba... (more »)
 
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JNMS7 said...
Jun. 26, 2011 at 7:38 pm:
I, personally, really like Lady GaGa-- though, not everyone has to like her. To me, I see Lady GaGa as someone who really loves what she's doing and works as hard as she does because she's just living her dream. Sure, it does appear that she's morphed into an extreme character (that I've heard people call 'fake'), but I see it as her incorporating all of HER inspirations/ role models, etc. into one image. So basically what I'm saying is, she- in a way- IS being herself by displaying what she lov... (more »)
 
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inspiredbytheworld said...
Jun. 12, 2011 at 12:03 pm:
I don't believe that you're justified in saying, "Why do people have to be normal to be popular?" That's the thing. Most normal people AREN'T popular. Generally, popular people are prettier than normal people, or have a unique skill that puts them above the common man. What I'm trying to say is that normal people AREN'T popular. (Generally) Lady Gaga is extremely popular, but we wouldn't quite call her normal, would we now? But it is true that we do not have the right to judge her. I personally ... (more »)
 
inspiredbytheworld replied...
Jun. 12, 2011 at 12:04 pm :
This is a reply to Britty(:'s comment. I pressed the wrong button...whoops...
 
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gracegirl17 This work has been published in the Teen Ink monthly print magazine. said...
Jun. 11, 2011 at 8:58 pm:

THANK YOU. 

I try explaining this to my friends all the time, and they never agree. Lady Gaga is famous because she's weird. I appreciate unique, and I love different. Lady Gaga, however, is just bizzare. She has no thoughts, and most of her songs have no true meanings. Her song "Born This Way" does have a good message, but it's not original at all. The theme that you should love yourself has been around forever. She is a fake. 

 
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TMichele said...
Jun. 5, 2011 at 9:23 pm:
wat up    lady gaga is awesome   and .............."diffrent" if ya know what i mean
 
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