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Why are boys so confusing?

September 2, 2009
By VirginiaHeart BRONZE, Torrance, California
VirginiaHeart BRONZE, Torrance, California
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Favorite Quote:
Good Girls are just Bad Girls who DON'T get Caught! <3


Why do boys always go for the pretty girls? They have to have the blonde hair and blue eyes! But what about the girls with dark hair and green eyes? Aren't they pretty too? Boys always go for the pretty girls, they want to look popular with those girls and be considered cool cause they go out with the "cute" girls! What's so cute about a ton of blonde cheerleaders thinking they're better then everyone else? In all the movies the blonde cheerleader has the guy at the beginning but then, in the end, the brunette get's him. Why can't it be like that in reality? Boys are so confusing. One moment they are together with the geeky girl, the next moment they are dancing at prom with a cheerleader. Why can't the girls that make sense and are beautiful in there own way be loved. Why are boys so cute, yet so hard.


The author's comments:
This was dedicated to a close friend of mine who feels this way.

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on Jun. 22 2011 at 3:55 am
writerchik_123 BRONZE, Miramar, Florida
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Favorite Quote:
When you can live forever what do you live for? <br /> <br /> <br /> -Edward Cullen

Yeah I have to agree with you there. Girls do tend to fall for the joks or the popular guys. I have unfortunately and I ended up getting turned down in the most horrible way possible. My self esteem is seriously too low right now....

on Jun. 22 2011 at 3:48 am
writerchik_123 BRONZE, Miramar, Florida
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Favorite Quote:
When you can live forever what do you live for? <br /> <br /> <br /> -Edward Cullen

Omg we need more people like you at my school!

on Jun. 22 2011 at 3:46 am
writerchik_123 BRONZE, Miramar, Florida
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Favorite Quote:
When you can live forever what do you live for? <br /> <br /> <br /> -Edward Cullen

That has to be the most se.xist thing I have ever heard in my life. I bet you a thousand dollars that I can beat you at any type of sport. Girls can do anything guys can do and we can do it better! I feel so bad for whoever your going to marry some day...

on Jun. 21 2011 at 2:13 pm
russianreader BRONZE, Charlotte, Vermont
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Favorite Quote:
&quot;Good, better, best. Never let it rest. Until your good is better and your better is best.&quot;

Me personally? no..but I'm attracted to men with sky blue eyes,so it must play some type of role.

Bumbleshree said...
on Jun. 21 2011 at 10:18 am

Cool! ur lucky to have green eyes...

Just asking: Do you think your eye color attracts people more?


on Jun. 20 2011 at 7:03 pm
russianreader BRONZE, Charlotte, Vermont
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Favorite Quote:
&quot;Good, better, best. Never let it rest. Until your good is better and your better is best.&quot;

I really like sky blue eyes...but personallyI actually like my eyes. They are green and pretty unique.

Bumbleshree said...
on Jun. 20 2011 at 4:26 pm
What's your fav eye color? Mines is green (not surprised!) Sometimes it depends on the boy for which colors look best on a girl. nd the girl matters too!

on Jun. 20 2011 at 4:07 pm
russianreader BRONZE, Charlotte, Vermont
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Favorite Quote:
&quot;Good, better, best. Never let it rest. Until your good is better and your better is best.&quot;

yeh i guess...green eyes are pretty...but blue eyes are nice too. but regardless of what men like...all eyes are pretty...(mostly)

Bumbleshree said...
on Jun. 20 2011 at 3:59 pm
Oh. But you have to admit, guys like blondes more. I wish I had green eyes.... whether or not guys even like them

on Jun. 20 2011 at 2:51 pm
russianreader BRONZE, Charlotte, Vermont
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Favorite Quote:
&quot;Good, better, best. Never let it rest. Until your good is better and your better is best.&quot;

I'm  a blonde with green eyes....no guys fall at my feet so it's definatly not hair color they like...

on Jun. 20 2011 at 2:46 pm
russianreader BRONZE, Charlotte, Vermont
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Favorite Quote:
&quot;Good, better, best. Never let it rest. Until your good is better and your better is best.&quot;

OMG!!! I TOTALLY AGREE WITH THIS ARTICLE. All of the cute guys are either gay or they are with the 'popular' girls. what about the rest of us? the girls who are smart, but not ready  to put themselves out there like the populars? we deserve cute cool guys too!!!

on Jun. 12 2011 at 12:09 pm
radicalhonesty GOLD, Alpharetta, Georgia
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Favorite Quote:
There is no situation, facet, or aspect of life that cannot be improved with pizza. -Daria

In my school, the "popular cheerleaders" are a mix of african american, asian, brunette, and blonde. i don't really think it has to do with hair color, its confidence. The "popular" girls are generally a lot more confident, which makes them seem prettier. The "geeky" girls are always hiding, never making an effort to be more confident. in reality, they won't be noticed because they don't try. Also, if you really wanted this article to be taken seriously, watch out for run on sentences and grammer. Maybe indent more, because I had a hard time following this. I see your point, but just make sure its valid and stated clearly.

on Jun. 11 2011 at 5:25 pm
rachelpark BRONZE, Milton, Massachusetts
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Boys like what they see, so that's what they go for. They don't have the patience to go beyond a girl's looks to see them as who they really are. That's why they always go for the cheerleader type of girl, because that's what they think is beautiful. They're just too shallow to consider personality.

on Jun. 10 2011 at 10:19 pm
KelleySchorn SILVER, Fort Worth, Texas
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Favorite Quote:
Whatever you are be a good one-some president i dont remember which<br /> procrastinaters unite!...tomorrow!!-matt<br /> i&#039;m F-U-L-LLLLL i think i can spellllll-allie =]

lol my guy friends tell me there not confusing all the time haha but lets face it, to guys girls are confusing to girls guys are confusing;P but i get what she means so answere me this, why do all the good guys always fall for the flirts?? my friend does and ends up getting hurt but he cant help it why is that?

on Jun. 10 2011 at 10:16 pm
KelleySchorn SILVER, Fort Worth, Texas
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Favorite Quote:
Whatever you are be a good one-some president i dont remember which<br /> procrastinaters unite!...tomorrow!!-matt<br /> i&#039;m F-U-L-LLLLL i think i can spellllll-allie =]

omg you should come to my school! i have blonde hair and hazel eyes but all the guys i go for always fall for the tiny beautiful flirty brunettes :/ i think we should swich schools sound good to you??

Kobalt BRONZE said...
on Jun. 10 2011 at 2:26 pm
Kobalt BRONZE, Sanderson, Florida
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My past is part of me but it doesnt define me or foreshadow my future. Only does my present state of mind make such a decision.

I have very fark brown hair and green eyes and the guy thats been flirting with me aleays says if he wasnt dating (whoever he was at that particular time_) he would be dating me. Go figure every one of them is blonde

on Jun. 4 2011 at 5:56 pm
JoPepper PLATINUM, Annandale, Virginia
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Favorite Quote:
&quot;Freedom is the ability to not care what the other person thinks.&quot;<br /> <br /> &quot;Not all those who wander are lost&quot; --JRR Tolkien<br /> <br /> &quot;When you are listening to music it is better to cover your eyes than your ears.&quot; --Jose&#039; Bergamin

Hey..... I'm brunette with green eyes!!!!!  But anyways I agree with you!!!!!  I've always wondered the same thing!!!!!

on Jun. 4 2011 at 5:49 pm
JoPepper PLATINUM, Annandale, Virginia
35 articles 0 photos 782 comments

Favorite Quote:
&quot;Freedom is the ability to not care what the other person thinks.&quot;<br /> <br /> &quot;Not all those who wander are lost&quot; --JRR Tolkien<br /> <br /> &quot;When you are listening to music it is better to cover your eyes than your ears.&quot; --Jose&#039; Bergamin

Awww......so sweet!!!!! :'D

on Jun. 2 2011 at 10:11 am
MaryZann BRONZE, Rockwall, Texas
4 articles 1 photo 7 comments

OH YEAH WELL BOYS ARE STINKY!

 

so hah!


Bumbleshree said...
on Jun. 1 2011 at 6:17 pm
Hey that's funny I like! I know, I'm brunette and it feels like boys drool over blondes but ignore other pretty girls. Sometimes I wish guys could love or crush someone for their pretty PERSONALITY, not hair color. *sigh*