People do tend to do this. They lie and cheat their way into a relationship. It's so unfair to the other person, and to everyone else who happens to like him or her. Because you never really know what's going on in the other person's head. They put on this act, like the 'I love you' face and telling you that everything's okay and there's nothing to worry about. This isn't the way to get into a relationship. A relationship should be based on truth, and trusting one another. Not lying, and cheating.