THIS IS GOOD

I agree with what you are saying, but the way you worded it is choppy, and probably not your best.

I do, however, have a problem with the line "You're dying on the inside,and you have bad health." I'm sorry, but to be blunt: that's just a stupid phrase.

that is deep i wish you would had put your name so you can get dredit....

good job ANONYMOS :)

Here are some tips that may help parents with violent teens:

Cool down - Avoid talking your teen when he/she is still angry or at the height of an emotional outburst. It's also not a good idea to go into their room or territory at home when they are angry. Wait for your teen to cool down before you talk. Some parents even prefer to take their teen outside in a public place in order to have a conversation about their attitude.Acknowledge the problem - Parents often make excuses for violent teens. They tend to play down the incidents where their teens become violent towards them and pretend that it's not serious, hoping that their teens will outgrow this eventually.Set consequences - Parents need to understand the importance of setting consequences for their teens' actions. During this time of their life, teens are already seeking independence and trying out their wings, so to speak, in preparation for this independence. However, if your teen is to mature properly, he/she must also learn to accept the consequences that come with bad decision-making.Take a closer look - Sometimes teens develop violent behavior suddenly. If your teen's violence is out of character, it's possible that your teen is going through something emotionally tumultuous and is not handling it well. Talking to your teen about it or asking his/her friends may give you clues on how to better help your child.Secure yourself and your home - In extreme circumstances where your teen's violent outbursts put you and your smaller children in harm's way, it's best to take your teen out of the home temporarily. Make this clear to your teen when you talk about consequences. You can arrange for your teen to go be sent to a therapeutic boarding school or boot camp the next time he/she has a violent outburst, or you can call the police when things get really bad.Get professional help - Sending abusive violent teens to therapy can turn their life around. For teens that need more help than others, you can actually consider therapeutic boarding schools or wilderness camps because these include intensive therapy with the curriculum. These schools are trained to handle this kind of problem. They can fill young students' schedules with more productive things to do and channel their energies to good use rather than aggression.

Parents need not feel trapped and afraid in their house. When dealing with violent teens, they just have to prepare themselves to make tough decisions for their own good as well as for the good of their children.

source: http://www.troubledteens.com/anger-and-violence/dealing-with-violent-teens-effective-punishment-for-teenagers.html