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Lunch MAG

October 18, 2012
By Anonymous

Twelve. That is the number of people who can fit at a lunch table in my school cafeteria. Twelve. Yet, despite that small number, as I eat my bagel I may be sitting in between the class valedictorian and a kid who is struggling to pass his classes. Or, I could end up next to a black atheist and across from a strong Hispanic Catholic. Like most high schoolers, I eat with the same 12 people every day. Yet my table is far from ordinary.

In both high schools I have attended, students organize themselves in the cafeteria subconsciously by race, class, and GPA with few exceptions. When people see my lunch table, it confuses them. They call it a “hot mess.” It's out of the ordinary; to them it just doesn't make sense.

However, to me it makes more sense than sitting with a bunch of people who are reflections of myself. I have learned more about different cultures in the U.S. from that table than I ever learned in a classroom. I have tasted a true Mexican tamale, learned what it takes to maintain a black girl's hair, and have been taught how to properly pronounce the word “swagger.”

But most touchingly, I have learned the trials that face each culture. I have gotten a taste of the prejudice they still face. I have begun to break down the walls I had subconsciously put up in my mind. All this from a little daily exposure to 11 people.

My lunch table is more than a place to eat. It has taught me a lesson about prejudice and stereotypes, and has opened my mind to a whole world full of people, a lesson I hope to take with me wherever I go.



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danman BRONZE said...
on Feb. 11 2014 at 2:31 pm
danman BRONZE, Defiance, Ohio
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This article was a great response to how people of all ethnicities can come together and talk to one another.  My school is somewhat like this but we are more spread out in groups of friends they hang out after school.  I think that is alright and all but it is sometimes boring so I get up sometimes and sit with other tables and socialize with the people at that table.  Being of Hispanic and African culture I love embrassing my race and showing people that not everyone is a stereotypical person. 

on Dec. 27 2013 at 12:08 pm
BurrThistle GOLD, Jaipur, Other
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Write to taste life twice, in the moment and in retrospect

okay, let me tell you one thing - this was wonderful. You got the point across in simple words that carry immense meaning and beauy.  Keep Writing !  And feel free to check out some of my work. :)

on Dec. 22 2013 at 2:50 pm
bookmouse BRONZE, Chapel Hill, North Carolina
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Yay! I'm not the only one! My lunch table was not only divere, but defied stereotypes (Mormon only-child, Jewish football player, Egyptian girl with an affinity for crop-tops to name a few).

Hilton BRONZE said...
on Dec. 4 2013 at 7:51 pm
Hilton BRONZE, Louisville, Kentucky
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&ldquo;The journey of a thousand miles begins with one step.&rdquo;<br /> Lao Tzu<br /> <br /> &ldquo;Do not go where the path may lead; go instead where there is no path and leave a trail.&rdquo;<br /> Anonymous<br /> <br /> &ldquo;Be not afraid of greatness. Some are born great, some achieve greatness, and som &ldquo;An obstacle is often a stepping stone.&rdquo;

Nice article. My school is kinda like this. And I love how you say "my lunch table is more than a place to eat" it truly is more than a place to eat. Those that sit with you, you get to learn about their troubles, hopes, dreams, and everyday life.

on Dec. 2 2013 at 9:41 pm
ramfthomas4 PLATINUM, South Bend, Indiana
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Favorite Quote:
&ldquo;If the present world go astray, the cause is in you, in you it is to be sought.&rdquo; <br /> ― Dante Alighieri, The Divine Comedy

yes.  thank you.

on Dec. 2 2013 at 8:23 pm
Peacemakerz PLATINUM, Cupertino, California
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The world will never have lasting peace so long as men reserve for war the finest human qualities. Peace, no less than war, requires idealism and self-sacrifice and a righteous and dynamic faith.<br /> -John Foster Dulles

Awesome, I wish I sat at that table!

on Dec. 2 2013 at 8:22 pm
Peacemakerz PLATINUM, Cupertino, California
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Favorite Quote:
The world will never have lasting peace so long as men reserve for war the finest human qualities. Peace, no less than war, requires idealism and self-sacrifice and a righteous and dynamic faith.<br /> -John Foster Dulles

Cool, I wish you wrote your username tho! Maybe I could check out your other works....

on Oct. 26 2012 at 7:46 pm
I love this!